• yfactor replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 4 years, 5 months ago

    @wmdoran, you have a wild imagination. I did never suggest he should have no contact, please read more carefully. I think he should have contact, in a healthy way. But I do oppose your idea of preparing for a legal battle, because how do you think that would affect children?
    That’s something which we can not predict with 100% certainty, but we…[Read more]

  • yfactor replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 4 years, 5 months ago

    Building a case to obtain parental rights?!? Preparing for legal battle, probably a nasty one. Doesn’t sound like that’s what children need.

    Well you don’t know me @wmdoran. I made more long-term decisions when I was young, even at the end of primary school. Maybe that’s in my genes 🙂 I also wasn’t hit by the news and due to chronological order…[Read more]

  • yfactor replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 4 years, 6 months ago

    Sending daily pictures to a friend sounds extreme, giving the boy the name of the donor too. It also doesn’t help in keeping a healthy distance, since they are their children in a social/legal way. Realizing this and making this clear is crucial. Being open about who the donor is to the children is also crucial. So that makes it more complex with…[Read more]

  • @wmdoran Hey Matt you’re doing a great job on your website!! Good job! I’ve been checking it out. Its gets better everytime I see it 🙂